Marriage is the purpose.

Ata-ul-Haq Qasmi went to America when a girl asked him, "Are marriages in your country really done by the wishes of their parents without the consent of the girl and the boy is not acquainted with each other?" . ''Ata-ul-Haq Qasimi said that the thing is only true to some extent, that is, the parents of the bride decide on the wedding, but the bride must take the opinion of the bride before deciding."What if you refuse," the girl asked admirably."Yet they do." Ataul Haq Qasimi responded with a cool breath.Leading intellectuals have tried to reflect our society in the true sense. Although marriage is not only an important duty, it is also the basis of adherence to high moral and social values. Marriage was given importance so that it could grow a family and establish a regular family.Not only Islam but other religions have also encouraged marriage-like bonds, so that the cohesion of two people can protect society from evil.Marriage, of course, is very important in human life. In our childhood, our parents and siblings dream of our wedding, and when we are young, we begin to dream.The purpose of all this is not to talk about the importance of marriage and to support it, and to say no to this family system, but if we believe that marriage is the solution to all problems then it is definitely wrong.It is not wrong to marry, but there are many complications and evils that arise in the process. Unmarried men and women are often viewed as undesirable in society. Listening to different phrases becomes a daily routine. Are you married or not? You are hired by job promotion and salary hikes, which is why you are refraining from making the most important decisions in your life. Why are you in a hurry to go home? Which of your little ones are crying? Just get married now, do you intend to become a Uncle?The lives of girls are impregnated by the fact that now a prince is coming from you, so leave the castle of dreams and meet the real world. When a girl gets older, she is forced to marry on the basis of 'who and what'. On the other hand, the boy is encouraged to change his mindset to read and write.Frankly, many parents do not make timely decisions because of the fear of being left out of the search for the best and earning income from their children.Girls are highly educated and forced to take care of anyone when they do not find relationships. And even if a girl or a boy likes someone, the outdated chains of caste are put in their footsteps and they are interconnected.In our society, daughter burden is still considered and I am talking about the 21st century. In households where there are no parents and married siblings and especially siblings and nieces, arrows are fired at the girl alone and an attempt is made to get rid of her as soon as possible. The same is true of virgin boys, how long can we bake bread? Find a wife for him.But in the cycle of hurrying a wedding, a formal meeting between a boy and a girl is considered to be underscoring between them and the rush of marriage soon dissipates. You also get to hear that you are not living in England every day and every day, it is Pakistan.Now all these factors are an attempt to deviate from the marriage, rather than to engage in it. On the contrary, engagement is done so that the parties can at least test each other. Now, mindfulness does not mean you have to go out for a relaxing day in the park or do more hotels, because moderation is essential. However, it is sometimes difficult to do so, in which you can take care of boundaries.In many households, girls get married just as a burden. That is, it has now resolved its own problems on its own. They have no right to upset their families anymore. That is, the example of a girl's marriage is like burying a dead person in the grave and then coming back and then going dead and knowing her God. That's how the girl goes and her in-laws.Lack of mental cohesion and relationships in a sense of urgency do not go unnoticed. If a boy or a girl starts to get spoiled by a parent's loose or bad companionship, their immediate marriage is decided and good families are always chosen, so that they can be a wayward child or girl. Improve Now it is not thought here that boys and girls who do not obey the guidance of parents, how will they improve themselves after the prohibition of spouse after such a long time?For these reasons many young boys and girls are running away from the responsibilities of marriage. They have deviated from this marriage by considering this good way of life for themselves. While there are acceptable young people for society who are getting married and living in their own home somehow. Now whether they are happy or unhappy with their marriages is a different matter.The purpose of all this discussion is to play our major role in reducing the rate of abnormalities in society. For which they have to pay attention to the solution of the issues related to the acceptance of marriage bonds to the new generation.